Tagself development

The Growth Potential in Moments of Boredom

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In a world that’s always buzzing with things to do, boredom has become something we try to escape at all costs. We fill every spare moment with our phones, social media, and endless to-do lists. But what if boredom is actually a gift? What if those quiet, empty moments are exactly what we need to grow in ways we rarely consider? One surprising benefit of boredom is that it’s a spark for...

The Price of Pride: How Ego Can Drain Your Wallet

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Two days ago I went into a supermarket with a friend who wanted to buy a pack of juice, we went in, saw what we were looking for, and quickly made our way to the counter, reaching the payment point the young lady, scanned and told us the bill, and to our greatest surprise it was N6,000 higher than the price we know, my friend complained that it was above her budget but what can we do...

Dear Not a Diary

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The random rumblings in my mind. I think of Life In the incremental ways that you look at a situation and gain more insight as time passes. But to do that, you require an open mind, otherwise you end up with a skewed view. The radical notion that all people who pass through your life add a sketch to the drawing called your life is called being existing – being alive. A friend who is also a...

Nobody’s Got It All Together (But That’s Okay!)

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No one actually has their life perfectly figured out. Shocking, right?  We scroll through social media seeing these amazing highlight reels of people traveling the world, acing their careers, and rocking flawless relationships, and it’s easy to feel like we’re falling short. But here’s the truth: everyone is winging it, even those who seem to have it all. So let’s let go...

From Ordinary To Extraordinary: We All Got Steeze

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In the world of fashion, “steeze”—a blend of style and ease—captures more than just a sharp wardrobe; it’s about the effortless projection of one’s unique self. While anyone can wear trendy clothes, it’s a great personality that transforms outfits into statements of individuality and confidence. Let’s delve into why a captivating personality is the ultimate key to...

The Psychology Behind “Walk a Mile in My Shoes”

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We’ve all heard it: “Walk a mile in my shoes.” It’s a common plead for empathy, urging someone to see things from our perspective. But have you ever stopped to wonder if a true walk in another’s shoes is even possible? Social media feeds are flooded with so-called curated perfectionists. I was blown away as I scrolled through people’s perspectives on June 25th...

LIVING WITH INTENTIONS: CREATING A BETTER TOMORROW FROM TODAY’S CHOICES

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In the stillness of the early morning, as the sun begins to rise and cast its golden light, there’s a moment to reflect on a powerful truth: our today is a reflection of our yesterday, just as it shapes our tomorrow. Every joy, every pain, every decision we’ve made has led us to this very moment. And what we do today will craft the story of our future. Look back at your life’s journey. Think of...

Leveling the Playing Field of Talent Through Learning

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In a world where talent comes in many shapes and forms, it’s easy to feel overshadowed by those who seem to possess natural gifts beyond our reach. From striking looks and exceptional intellect to dulcet voices and magnetic personalities, it’s tempting to believe that success is reserved for the chosen few who are blessed with innate talent. But what if I told you that everyone has a...

FOMO Friend or Foe? My Social Media Scroll of Self-Discovery

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Have you ever scrolled through Instagram and felt a pang of envy? Maybe your feed explodes with friends vacationing or living in your dream country, while you’re stuck in the office. Or perhaps everyone seems to be attending the hottest new restaurant, concerts, events, and weddings and you wonder when will be my turn and leaving you with a bowl of cereal, and a serious case of...

The Mental Gym: How Difficulties Work Out the Mind

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Just as a sculptor shapes a block of marble into a masterpiece through diligent labor, so too does the mind refine itself through the trials and tribulations of life. The analogy that “Difficulties strengthen the mind as labor does the body” encapsulates the profound truth that challenges are not hindrances but rather catalyst for growth and resilience. When faced with difficulties...