CategorySelf Development

The Growth Potential in Moments of Boredom

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In a world that’s always buzzing with things to do, boredom has become something we try to escape at all costs. We fill every spare moment with our phones, social media, and endless to-do lists. But what if boredom is actually a gift? What if those quiet, empty moments are exactly what we need to grow in ways we rarely consider? One surprising benefit of boredom is that it’s a spark for...

Growing up……….

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It’s 1 am and I’m up on my bed, sleep has disappeared from my eyes again. This is the third time in a row that I’m up at midnight and can’t seem to go back to sleep. I started having flashbacks of my life as a kid, the first memory that came to my mind was an exciting one, it was when my mum got me a bicycle as a surprise gift. She had just returned from a long journey and I was at home helping...

The Price of Pride: How Ego Can Drain Your Wallet

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Two days ago I went into a supermarket with a friend who wanted to buy a pack of juice, we went in, saw what we were looking for, and quickly made our way to the counter, reaching the payment point the young lady, scanned and told us the bill, and to our greatest surprise it was N6,000 higher than the price we know, my friend complained that it was above her budget but what can we do...

Dear Not a Diary

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The random rumblings in my mind. I think of Life In the incremental ways that you look at a situation and gain more insight as time passes. But to do that, you require an open mind, otherwise you end up with a skewed view. The radical notion that all people who pass through your life add a sketch to the drawing called your life is called being existing – being alive. A friend who is also a...

Nobody’s Got It All Together (But That’s Okay!)

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No one actually has their life perfectly figured out. Shocking, right?  We scroll through social media seeing these amazing highlight reels of people traveling the world, acing their careers, and rocking flawless relationships, and it’s easy to feel like we’re falling short. But here’s the truth: everyone is winging it, even those who seem to have it all. So let’s let go...

From Ordinary To Extraordinary: We All Got Steeze

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In the world of fashion, “steeze”—a blend of style and ease—captures more than just a sharp wardrobe; it’s about the effortless projection of one’s unique self. While anyone can wear trendy clothes, it’s a great personality that transforms outfits into statements of individuality and confidence. Let’s delve into why a captivating personality is the ultimate key to...

The Psychology Behind “Walk a Mile in My Shoes”

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We’ve all heard it: “Walk a mile in my shoes.” It’s a common plead for empathy, urging someone to see things from our perspective. But have you ever stopped to wonder if a true walk in another’s shoes is even possible? Social media feeds are flooded with so-called curated perfectionists. I was blown away as I scrolled through people’s perspectives on June 25th...

LIVING WITH INTENTIONS: CREATING A BETTER TOMORROW FROM TODAY’S CHOICES

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In the stillness of the early morning, as the sun begins to rise and cast its golden light, there’s a moment to reflect on a powerful truth: our today is a reflection of our yesterday, just as it shapes our tomorrow. Every joy, every pain, every decision we’ve made has led us to this very moment. And what we do today will craft the story of our future. Look back at your life’s journey. Think of...

Navigating Life’s Storms: A Bad Day Does Not Equate to a Bad Life

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Life is a journey filled with peaks and valleys, triumphs and tribulations. Some days, the sun shines brightly, and everything falls into place seamlessly. Other days, however, seem to be shrouded in darkness, with challenges lurking around every corner. During these darker moments, we may find ourselves questioning the trajectory of our lives, wondering if a series of bad days signifies a bad...

No Time To Check Time: Embrace Every Moment

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In life, time is our most valuable asset. Each passing moment is like a ripe berry waiting to be plucked. We have the power to make the most of these opportunities or let them slip away. Imagine a bustling market filled with colorful berries. Each berry represents a chance for us to act, to seize the day, and to make a difference in our lives and the lives of others. Every decision we make...