AuthorAdebayo Olukade

Hi, I am Adebayo Olukade, a Product Manager at The Tonic Technologies by day, and a writer from the heart whenever words find me. I explore life, growth, and the small human stories that connect us all, turning moments and emotions into reflections we often feel but rarely say aloud.

The Tree That Grows Tall Must First Learn to Bend With the Wind

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Sometimes life feels like a storm you didn’t see coming. You are doing everything right, yet the wind keeps shifting, pushing you to the edge of what you think you can handle. I have learned that those moments aren’t there to break us. They are there to teach us how to bend. Lately, I’ve been thinking about what it really means to grow. Not just to move forward or climb higher, but to grow; in...

The Mental Gym: How Difficulties Work Out the Mind

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Just as a sculptor shapes a block of marble into a masterpiece through diligent labor, so too does the mind refine itself through the trials and tribulations of life. The analogy that “Difficulties strengthen the mind as labor does the body” encapsulates the profound truth that challenges are not hindrances but rather catalyst for growth and resilience. When faced with difficulties...

Maximising Potential: The Fusion of Discipline and Mastery

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In my recent research, I have noticed a prevalent struggle among many individuals to fully realize their potential and reach long-term goals. I encountered those who attempt to be jacks of all trades yet excel in none. I once found myself entangled in the confusion of not knowing what path to take. Frankly speaking, it was a very challenging experience. All hope was almost lost until I understood...

The Silent Struggle: Consistency in the Absence of Applause.

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Consistency, often perceived as a straightforward path to success, takes on a different hue when no one is clapping. We are in a world that often measures achievement by external validation, maintaining steadfast dedication without the reassurance of recognition, which can be a daunting task.The silent struggle that accompanies persistent effort in the absence of external encouragement is a...

What Stands in the Way, Becomes the Way

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Life often presents obstacles that seem insurmountable, challenges that test our will and resilience. However, there exists a philosophy that suggests these obstacles, instead of being roadblocks, can serve as pathways to growth and success. This principle, “What stands in the way becomes the way,” illustrates the wisdom of transforming obstacles into opportunities.  Primarily, this...

Decoding Inner Drive: The Dance Between Prize and Glory

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THIS ARTICLE WAS CO-WRITTEN BY BAYO & NKECHI Discovering what truly motivates us is an introspective journey that often involves the delicate balance between the desire for tangible rewards, the prize, and the intangible recognition, the glory. While both hold their unique appeal, the source of motivation can vary greatly from person to person. For some, the pursuit of the prize serves as a...

Failure’s Gambit: A Catalyst for Risk-Taking

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Failure is a word that often conjures negative emotions, but in the realm of success and growth, it has a paradoxical relationship with risk-taking. The more you fail, the more you want to take risks. This counterintuitive connection reveals the transformative power of failure and how it can fuel a relentless pursuit of innovation and achievement. One of the fundamental reasons behind this...

Mindset Shapes Everything

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In the grand symphony of life, the most influential conductor is your mindset. It is the orchestra that plays the tune of your reality, guiding your actions and shaping your destiny. Whether you believe in the possibility of success or dwell in a realm of doubt, your mindset is the anchor to achieving your goals. A positive mindset is a cornerstone of personal and professional success. It is the...

Carpe Diem: Welcoming Life’s Fleeting Nature

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In the busy journey of life, the reminder of our mortality can sometimes darken our hopes and daily pursuits. Oddly enough, embracing the unavoidable reality of the last curtain call, can propel us to live a more fulfilling and purposeful life. It is a paradox, where the acknowledgement of an end becomes a driving force for a vibrant existence.  However, this consciousness nudges us to prioritize...

Building Greatness: The Puzzle of Masterpieces 

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Creating a masterpiece is a journey through varied fragments of creativity, dedication, and skill. It is like solving a complex puzzle where every piece has its unique place and significance in forming the grand picture of greatness. It is the amalgamation of various fragments, ideas, and nuances that breathe life into what might seem ordinary on its own.  I define greatness as doing the...